The more regular trustfuls, the better
What mom bindings do we and could we experience with others?
WHY
As any life, we can’t survive by ourselves only, we always need others, whether is for self reflecting ourselves in them and-or for sharing personal care and material things with them.
Families and Friends, Mates, Comrades which we sometimes call the Family too. We want to reinforce (give more quality to) some key groupings and agreements we do through trusts between beyond lineage. Using the word «MyFamily» for that will help us in achieving so.
This shouldn’t cause any trouble to your lineaged family. We rather expect your mum being more happy about you being more cared by others and-or you knowing better what to be a mum could be.
Maybe MyFamily incentives your mom to be a better mom to you too, because you will be having other competing virtual moms… lol, who knows? at least we wish for such scenario to happen happily.
WHAT
Let’s formalise-normalise regular rights and duties to enjoy between close affinities. Make more clear andso meaningful the relationship you have with some closer others.
Create a group and add people who you agree to give them part of your personal care and sharing things with them, where Family roles are default packs of rights and duties. Finally, get stats of what a family is, as by i.e.
MyFamily app says me that you are 44% mum, 32% partner, 22% granny, 4 % cousin of me: What does it say to you about me? Why do you keep private that information to me?
HOW
Here there is a list of standard practices to be offered to your candidates:
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Partner |
Granny |
Mum |
Sister |
Cousin |
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Regular care and affection |
Regular cheers and help |
Strong emotional companionship |
Intimate freindship and complicity |
Fraternity and colaborativity |
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Gives attention preference |
Can see or hear you |
Calls you anytime |
Pass free time together |
Attends you sometimes |
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Limits the other to do things |
Tell you what purposes to have |
Prescribe you attitudes |
Counseling you about any issue |
Reply and send you messages |
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Criticizes hard |
Show disaproval |
Negative comentting |
Show upsetness |
Criticize you constructively |
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Regular surprising gifts |
Gifts as posible |
Gifts you if you behave good |
Yearly presents |
Invite to events |
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Share all with you |
Share and keep things |
Receive heritages and grant fully |
Receive heritages and grant you some |
Share some things |
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Can spend part of his-her money |
Gives money if you need |
Gives money sometimes, lend always |
Lend you sometimes |
Lend you if urgent |
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Know your adress and phone | ||||
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Grants you |
See also
CrowdParenting for a challenging build up of a more collaborative conventional family