The more regular trustfuls, the better
What mom and else familiar bindings could we experience with other non familiar people?
WHY
We all have a Family. Some people don’t trust – like them. We have many friends, mates andor even known people which we sometimes call them Family. We also consider family to some people we just met in a certain mommentum. We even call family to some people, companies, sports teams or celebrities we follow.
More factually speaking, when we use the word familiy in an informal way, we are referring to our more regular – higher trusted people and entities. So it seems worth to offer an app called MyFamily that reinforces (give more quality to) some key groupings and agreements we do through trusts beyond blood lineage.
Having an online Family shouldn’t cause any trouble to your lineaged family. We rather expect your mum being more happy about you being more cared by others and-or you knowing better what to be a mum could be. Even, maybe, MyFamily app could incentivate your mom to be a better mom to you too, because you will be having other competing virtual moms… lol, who knows? at least we wish for such scenario to happen happily.
WHAT
Let’s formalise-normalise-make more explicit the regular rights and duties that we enjoy with people who we have some more or less close affinity. This can just make such relationship more meaningful. It could never worsen it.
Create a group and add people who you agree to give andor receive from them some personal care and that you are open and willing for sharing material things with and from them.
Family classical types are default packs of rights and duties, fully customizable by anyone. Finally, we could get stats of what a family is, i.e.
MyFamily app says me that you are 44% mum, 32% partner, 22% granny, 4 % cousin of me: What does it say to you about me? Why do you keep private that information to me?
HOW
Here there is a list of defaults to be offered to your Familiy candidates:
Partner |
Granny |
Mum |
Sister |
Cousin |
Regular care and affection |
Regular cheers and help |
Strong emotional companionship |
Intimate freindship and complicity |
Fraternity and colaborativity |
Gives attention preference |
Can see or hear you |
Calls you anytime |
Pass free time together |
Attends you sometimes |
Limits the other to do things |
Tell you what purposes to have |
Prescribe you attitudes |
Counseling you about any issue |
Reply and send you messages |
Criticizes hard |
Show disaproval |
Negative comentting |
Show upsetness |
Criticize you constructively |
Regular surprising gifts |
Gifts as posible |
Gifts you if you behave good |
Yearly presents |
Invite to events |
Share all with you |
Share and keep things |
Receive heritages and grant fully |
Receive heritages and grant you some |
Share some things |
Can spend part of his-her money |
Gives money if you need |
Gives money sometimes, lend always |
Lend you sometimes |
Lend you if urgent |
Know your adress and phone | ||||
Grants you |
See also
CrowdParenting for a crowdfunding like model for building up of a more collaborative conventional-real-lineaged family
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