More mums more sweet, more dadies more sugar
WHY
The more costy and long term energies we commit for raising kids, still through the mum mostly, differences us very much from animals and else.
We match very much with others with our parenting views and promissory commits we can give about that. Let’s open that up.
Love in couples is very related to the feelings that the woman initially brings to her partner as a projection of how she will love her (possible future) kid, and how men reply to it with their own talents to it.
The mum and father will provide for the kid, andbut other men and women will also help there. The point with this crowdparenting app is to ease the contributions of many, thus also decreasing the practical high commitment parents should do themselves by letting these other contributor to settle to some relation with the offspring.
If we are to think on behalf of the kid, let’s also see that kids being loved very much only or mostly by single moms andor not enough by males could have their own unwished lacks. The kid having more options for him-her having further relations with adults that also provide them is a win’win for him-her. Any infant cares more about being cared and loved by many people rather than having only one or two persons who to love to and will tend to consider father and mother to the ones who more regularly care about him-her. This is not a problem for the kid, but for some parents prides, specially mothers one, it is because many other women are lobbying for that scenario not happening to others, as they feel it a challenge for the privileges they get themselves through this culture of raising kids this more monopolistically way.
There are many taboos about motherhood, that need better care. Mapatrifocality, the direct relationship with the kid hasn’t been valued enough in evolutionary biology and anthropology. The gerontophilic inteligence of the embryo-fetus-kid itself as a vanguard even less. Nevertheless, for concretizing here a conclusion on such thread, the broader cultural impact that crowdparenting wants to bring into it is to decrease hypergamy towards men and female intercompetition.
Crowdparenting is not opposing any view on parenting, it is just a tool to help you declare and relate through your parenting ideals and wills.
Some present and future children could already prefer more open, plural and collaborative settings for the caring of them
For women and men having kids more comfortably
More part-time daddies and microparentings for orphans and lonelies andless artificial fertilization by sperm from completely anonymous men
Any women willing to have a kid wants to get assurance from further assistance she will have either for the well growing up of a child. More clear information about it (I.e. grants beyond the ones already provided by laws) should help her more openly partake the rising of a child too.
Why do we do crowdfunding for projected material resources but we don’t do it for the most valueable matter a child is?
It is not a pitty for anyone to say he wants to be only 10% father or mother of a child, nor for a couple of parents to tell they need a 10% more of very strict parentship, nor for a woman to say she doesn’t want the biological father to be her fiancee or involve much in her relationship with the kid. We shouldn’t bully others about how they make their family. We have plenty of cases where populated and resourceful families have not taken good care of kids and others where non blood relatives have raised kids very well.
WHAT
The CrowdParenting model is an easy form to fill up for declaring the promissory responsability anyone is ready to accept for the parenting of a child, whether the kid being already alive or yet to be born.
This crowdparenting initiative development basically depends on women willing to go for it andbut also 1000 men could easily publish and join their commits for a basic completing of a raising of 10 kids, which should incentivate some women to open themselves up to them for that.
HOW
- Link and improve the practices of organizations that offer the receiving of orphans to adults
- Incentivate existant parents to promote the shared care of their existing children
- Help existant childless couples to go for this way of parenting
- Let any single persons to candidate and participate in custom parentship
See also
MyFamily regular trust
GenderWars tests