The more regular trustfuls, the better
What mom bindings do we and could we experience with others?
WHY
As any life, we can’t survive by ourselves only, we always need others, whether is for self reflecting ourselves in them and-or for sharing personal care and material things with them.
Local organizations of limited trustful groups of people naturally show up in our life time as Friends, Mates, Comrades or more formally speaking as Families.
With «MyFamily» as «the» keyword for such an interactive app we want to reinforce (give more quality to) the reality of some key groupings and agreements done between people beyond lineage. For example, some of us sometimes call some friends of us as «Brother», so why not formalising this for being more ourselves, having fun and sharing easier with others?
Using the word «Family» naturally pushes us to it. It normalises rights and duties to enjoy between close affinities. This shouldn’t cause any trouble to your lineaged family. We rather expect your mum being more happy about you being more cared by others and-or you knowing better what to be a mum could be.
Maybe MyFamily incentives your mom to be a better mom to you too, because you will be having other competing virtual moms… lol, who knows? at least we wish for such scenario to happen happily.
WHAT
Make more clear and meaningful the relationship you have with your closer others.
Create a group and add people who you agree to give them part of your personal care and sharing of things with them.
Get stats of what a family is, as by i.e.
MyFamily says me that you are 44% mum, 32% partner, 22% granny, 4 % cousin of me: What does it say to you about me? Why do you keep private that information to me?
HOW
Here there is a list of standard practices to be offered to your candidates of your MyFamily group:
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Partner |
Granny |
Mum |
Sister |
Cousin |
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Regular care and affection |
Regular cheers and help |
Strong emotional companionship |
Intimate freindship and complicity |
Fraternity and colaborativity |
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Gives attention preference |
Can see or hear you |
Calls you anytime |
Pass free time together |
Attends you sometimes |
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Limits the other to do things |
Tell you what purposes to have |
Prescribe you attitudes |
Counseling you about any issue |
Reply and send you messages |
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Criticizes hard |
Show disaproval |
Negative comentting |
Show upsetness |
Criticize you constructively |
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Regular surprising gifts |
Gifts as posible |
Gifts you if you behave good |
Yearly presents |
Invite to events |
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Share all with you |
Share and keep things |
Receive heritages and grant fully |
Receive heritages and grant you some |
Share some things |
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Can spend part of his-her money |
Gives money if you need |
Gives money sometimes, lend always |
Lend you sometimes |
Lend you if urgent |
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Know your adress and phone |
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Grants you |
See also
CrowdParenting for a challenging build up of a more collaborative conventional family