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MyFamily

MY FAMILY

MyFamily is a group of people that you follow who with you have accepted some kind of binding agreement related to personal caring and-or sharing of things through MyFlove.

We propose an initial set of MyFamily trustful contracts that could be freely modified and unidirectionally proposed. We want to get to define what a family is between all of us, i.e.

“What being a mom really binds for?”

“What people here thinks a mom is?”

«It says me you are 44% mum, 32% partner, 22% granny, 4 % cousin of me: What does it say to you about me? Why do you have keep that information private to me?»

HOW

In a step-by-step form, or by clicking in any of these options and adding more information to them.

Novia

Abuela

Madre

Hermana

Prima

Cuidados y afectos regulares

Se alegra por ti y te ayuda

Acompañamiento emocional

Íntima amistad y complicidad

Fraternidad y colaboratividad

Darte preferencia de atención

Poder verte o oirte

Llamarte a cualquier hora

Pasar tiempo libre juntas

Invitarte a eventos

Limitarte cosas que hacer

Decirte que propósitos tener

Prescribirte actitudes

Dar consejo sobre cualquier asunto

Responderte y enviarte mensajes

Criticarte con dureza

Mostrar desaprobación

Comentar negativamente

Mostrarse contrariada

Criticarte constructivamente

Regalos sorpresa regulares

Te regala todo lo que pueda

Te regala cosas si te portas bien

Regalos anuales

Te invita a eventos

Compartir todo contigo

Compartir y guardarte las cosas

Recibir herencias y avalarte totalmente

Prestarte dinero y avalarte

Prestarte cosas con facilidad

Tienes su dinero

Te da dinero si lo necesitas

Te da dinero a veces

Te puede prestar algo de dinero

Te presta dinero si es muy urgente

Saber tu dirección y teléfono

Te avala

WHY

As any life, we can’t survive by ourselves only, we always need others, whether is for self reflecting ourselves in them and-or for sharing personal care and material things. Such local organizations of limited trustful groups of people naturally show up in our life time as Friends, Mates, Comrades or more formally speaking as Families.

Since a family is a very lovely expresion of a human local reality, the family lineaging shouldn’t be dependant in a couple deciding to have a children by themselves, nor in a set closed rights guaranteed by some centralised formal authority. We want to respect the high of the word Family while decetralising and crowdsourcing its meaning.

We do have more special relationships with friends that are not in our “blood lineage”. For example, some of us sometimes call some friends of us as “Brother” o love them more than to our bloody brother, so why not to extend this lovely trend for being more ourselves, having fun and sharing easier with others?

We don’t foresee any trouble that MyFamily could bring to your bloody lineaged family, we just can expect your mum being more happy about you being more cared by others and-or knowing better what to be a mum could be. Maybe MyFamily incentivates your mom to be a better mom to you too, because you will be having other competing virtual moms… who knows? at least we wish such scenario happily worrilessly.

With “MyFamily” as “the” keyword we want to reinforce (give more quality to) some key groupings and agreements done between people on-through a virtual app. MyFamily contracts signed in a platform should render a quicker increase of quality of real life, just because using the word “Family” naturally pushes us to it.

 

See also: CrowdParenting