WHY

We are bound to bond with other people with our senses and emotions. Our wills may be bothering the other one that we want to feel more. Sometimes (s)he would like it same as us, but most of the times (s)he won’t like it as much as us although (s)he could be anyway open to let us sense him-her more, up to some extent (s)he is-will be comfortable with.

Such experiences could be very meaningful for us (from now on: Adorer) and easy for the other one (from now on: Adored) to accept them, but sometimes such wants are either difficult to express andor are proposed in a too uncomfortable andor not enough transparent way to the Adored one.

AdoreYou purpose is to, at the very least, cheer up the relation and allow for a more relaxed conversation about sensorial wants, if the adored have at least liked the request, while (s)he can always be reluctant or unwilling to accept the offer. At the very least, it may just help people who want to fulfill their wants of adoring someone else more openly in many ways, even just for a momment or in more regular basis without the adored feeling disturbed by that.

We shouldn’t value more the fear of damaging some relationship by being open about what we wish, than the potential benefits that doing so can give to the relation. Wills and wants of adoring others are anyway going to be more informally expressed, this way they risking being either pains within ourselves due to keep that conversation within ourselves only andor by giving a disgusting communication to the adored one, despite it being a supposed adoration.

WHAT

AdoreYou app wishes to help us tunning sensorial requests, which are very wished and very little performed while they have a high potentiality for bringing much wealth to our lifes very simply.

Naming the app «Adore you» already helps settling the respect that we need to give to the (adored) one. It emphasizes the best of the wills at trying to contact someone: We would like the adored one to make a bit of an effort for the much bigger please that will give to the adorers us, so introducing our request as an adoration will help in that.

AdoreYou also opens up a very interesting negotiating arena, where adored ones can refuse adorers partially (and propose a lower deal) instead of having to do refuse adorer ones absolutely. Also, adored ones can just ask back for additional more strict options I.e. I want to know your ID, have a videocall, etc

In the case of adoring requests being accepted, it can cause a very lovely impact in the relationship. In the other hand, the possibility of using the app for harassment is to be minimized in different ways:

1. By giving all privacy options to the users for being contacted by who they want and through which kind of messages only

2. By helping us in (many original ways) managing the frustation coming out of possibly being refused by someone we adore.

3. By making clear that every adorer is firstly responsible of «not wanting more» than what his-her adored accepted, otherwise risking an important part of his-her reputation if a breach is found (we recommend that so we include a default evil code in the proposals).

4. Including communitarian mediating services specialized in this situations

HOW

See here below an edgy study case, to test the possible limits of the app.

Introduction

(.) I don’t want us to mess up further than by you…

() etc

Let me adore you(.r):

() etc

() breast

(.) naked breast

with-by:

() my eyes

(.) my hand

()smelling

()tasting

()hearing

…

Incentives:

(.) I am also open to a previous:

(.) conversation (.) about: (.) whatever you want

(.) find somewhere comfortable where to do it

(.) anything else you may need

(.) I offer you my OwnTrust for you being able to damage my reputation if i fail you by: …

…

Annex:

() Please

(.) Would you?

(.) Why not?

Disclaimer: Requests and agreements are to be kept secret, unless otherwise authorised by both parts. We encourage adored ones not to be offended by adorers. If they feel any harassment, they can contact some communitarian mediation services that are specialized in dealing with this kind of situations.

Development Note: «Adore you licenses» should be able to be sent through QRs, templated as invitations with diversity of designs, including grants, ease to add further clauses and with further options to publickly certifying it for a more extended security and simpathy.